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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Pier 1 Peppermint Candle Knock offs

I went to Pier 1 on the weekend. It's one of my favourite places to shop any time of the year for gifts and for myself.  They had these really nice "peppermint candles. They were red and white stripes and would match my upstairs Christmas decor perfectly.  They were really pretty, but they were priced at $15 and $25 and scented. I couldn't justify that cost for something I'm going to burn and I don't like the heavy scents. So, I thought I could make my own.  How hard can that be?
I always have lots of Ikea candles around.  They burn beautifully, are unscented and cheap. The little ones are about a $1 a piece and the large ones are about $4. I had red glitter still on hand from the ornament project and what good crafter doesn't have lots of glue and tape on hand?

I took some painters masking tape and wrapped  it around the candles.  I wasn't too particular about placement.  I just tried to make it even.

I painted the white parts with Mod Podge.  I used Mod Podge because it works as good as glue, and it was easier to get my brush in the top of the bottle.  I didn't feel like squeezing out the Tacky Glue into a bowl or fussing with it.  Mod Podge was quick and easy.

After I painted the candles with MP I put out a piece of parchment paper about as big as the bigger candle. I poured out some red glitter and rolled both candles in the glitter. 

While the glue and glitter sets up a bit, I folded the paper into a point and poured the left over glitter back into the container.

Then I carefully pulled the tape off over my garbage can so I didn't have any clean up afterward.

And voila! Unscented red and white striped Christmas candles for less than $10.  They actually cost me nothing because I had everything on hand.  And the whole thing took about 10 minutes!

Aren't they cute?!

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Laurie's Promised No Fail, No Fuss Shortbread Cookies

I am no baker! True facts.  Hubs and Dot will tell you I make a great banana bread and killer butter tarts but that's it.  Everything else is hit and miss. Mostly miss.  (see my recent cake fiascos).  It is holiday season and time to create some yummy sweet treats in the kitchen.  Christmas isn't Christmas without shortbread (or so says Hubs) so I was on the hunt for an easy no fuss shortbread recipe.  I don't have the patience for rolling and cutting and all that "stuff".  A twitter friend sent me this recipe:


1lb butter
3cups flour
1cup icing sugar
½ cup cornstarch
1 tsp vanilla.
beat  together until  like whipped cream.  Spoon on greased sheet. bake at 350F for  approx. 15 mins. Melts in your mouth!

Looks simple enough.  How hard can it be? I will give it a try.

Yesterday I planned to make the cookies but it was one of those days when everything that could get in the way of me getting in the kitchen did.  It went like this:

My plan for the day was simple:

Late start = sleep in :D
Make breakfast
Pack lunch for Jess
Drop Jess at school
Get nails done
Bake Shortbread cookies
Pick Jess up from school
Make dinner
Wrap gifts

Here’s how  it actually went:
Late start = wake up EARLIER than usual
Make breakfast
Take out butter for cookies to soften
Pack lunch for Jess
Drop Jess at school
Get nails done (and here’s where it went off track)
Bring Jessica’s packed lunch TO her at school
Put on Christmas music
Butter is not ready.
Clear off island
Take stuff from the island upstairs
Spot wreath that needs to be completed for gift this weekend. Finish that.
Hands covered in glitter and glue so I have to wash my hands
Sink in kitchen has dirty dishes in it. Wash hands anyway
Unload dishwasher
Reload dishwasher
Take stuff from island to basement
Throw on a load of laundry. Need a basket for the stuff in the dryer. OH.. cat boxes need changing.
Change cat boxes. Take out to porch. Oh.. it’s warm out here today. I’ll set up my Yule offering.
Set up Yule offering on the porch and hang the last few decorations for the porch.
Mail man arrives so I read the Christmas cards. Put them on the display.
Take the empty laundry basket to the basement for the dried load. Oh wait… that’s still upstairs.
While I’m up there, I grab the Christmas gifts I need to wrap for this weekend.
Now I’m hungry… cuz it’s noon!

The afternoon carried on in similar fashion and I never did actually get the cookies done.  I did make a glorious pork tenderloin recipe for dinner though!

To be sure nothing got in my way of baking the cookies, I made sure my kitchen was clean and tidy before I went to bed so it was all ready to go first thing in the morning.   After dropping my daughter off at school and enjoying my coffee and breakfast, I started gathering up my ingredients and making my mise en place (fancy words Hubs using meaning getting everything measured and ready and nearby the work area). 

The recipe is simple with only a few ingredients.  I put the softened butter in the mixing bowl. I mixed all the dry ingredients in a separate bowl and added them slowly to the butter and vanilla mixture.  When it looked like whipped cream I figured it was ready.  
 I dropped them on a parchment lined baking pan using 2 teaspoons. Easy enough. They looked a bit messy. I wasn't sure if I should flatten them or leave them be. So I left them alone.  I have a gas convection oven and I was worried about burning the cookies so I watched them closely.  The instructions say bake for 15 minutes.  At 10 minutes they were starting to brown around the edges so I took them out of the oven then.  I let them cool a bit on the pan, then moved them to a rack. 

Feeling confident now, I dropped another tray full of cookies.  This time I added little bits of candy cane to the cookies.  The next batch, I topped with a semi-sweet chocolate chip.  Look!

Don't they look yummy?  They ARE! They are fluffy and light and yuuuumeeee. 

So here's what I learned while trying this recipe:

The batter looks more like butter cream icing then whipped cream.
These cookies are super easy, and truly fool proof.  Just, mix, drop and bake.
10 minutes was enough in my oven.
The dough that was scooped and smoothed rather than dropped by 2 spoon method were nicer looking when cooked.  I tried rolling them like meatballs, but my hands are way too hot.
The person who gave me the recipe suggested piping them from a pastry bag with a large tip.  This recipe would work beautifully in a piping bag or cookie press.
The dough was easier to work with when it was kept chilled between oven batches, but if kept in the fridge for longer than 10ish minutes it was too hard to scoop.
I kept 2 spoons in the fridge and that made it super easy to work the dough.

This one really was easy peasy. I got 5 1/2 dozen cookies from this recipe.  Dots gave it a good report.  Hubs will try later tonight (and I'll update).  I'm told that they need to rest a few days and will then be even better.  Give them a try!


Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Life Isn't Always Funny nor Light.

When I started this blog, it was meant to be about the funny side of life.  I meant to use it as a place to push my preceived limitations (and hopefully yours too) and to laugh at myself in the process.  One of the things I love about myself is my ability to know when to laugh it off. Especially since moving into the wide world of crafting!  In this photoshop world everything can be made to appear perfect.  I have found that following simple recipes, even to the letter doesn't guarantee a good outcome.  I've also learned that craft tutorials sometimes seem easier than they are.  My favourite discovery is that the picture in my head doesn't always translate to the project - and that's OK!

Where I am today though, is more deeply personal and sensitive.  Maybe it's better kept to myself.  But I'm not very good at being quiet, especially when being quiet is part of the problem.  Like most families, we have our problems.  Not within the core though.  Hubs and I are rock solid.  We have a love story like no other.  We, as a couple, are unwavering.  But it certainly doesn't stop outsiders from trying!  In 19 years, we've been challenged by outside problems.  Someday I'll write a book (because how hard can that be? LOL) but for now, suffice it to say that not many gave us any hope of staying together or for him making me happy.  Some have tried very hard, repeatedly, to cause a break up.  Well, try as they did, it didn't and won't happen.  We are the real thing.  We are forever. 
 
We are more than a couple, Hubs and me. We are parents, and children, and siblings.  We are part of a bigger whole.  And that's where today's post comes from.  There has been a big elephant in the room for too long and it's long since time that somebody spoke about it.  Pretending it isn't there won't make it go away.  Shining a light on it, likely won't help much either.  But, typing it out helps me vent my feelings.  And sharing it publically, could help someone else, and by some stroke of a miracle, the right person could read this and pull his/her head out of .... well out of the dark.

Back in September 2009 I posted the follow bit on my Facebook page.  The subject of the post took personal offence. What he needed to do was take notice! However, here we are some 2 years later and we're still dealing with addiction in the family and the addict still thinks he controls things.  Well take note Addict. While it may appear on the surface that nothing has changed, rest assured, everything is about to change.  Because as they say, if nothing changes, nothing changes. 
 
So here is what I wrote 2 years ago:

Over the last few days I have learned a great many things. Among other things, I have learned just how dark the dark side of society is. I have learned just how relentless addiction is. I have learned how very strong and resilient I am. I have learned that when love is pure, it can not and will not be destroyed.

Addiction shatters lives. Addiction shatters families…. but it will NOT shatter mine.
Addicts are manipulative. They will lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, play, control, and use whoever and whatever they can to get what they want. Addicts will wipe out whatever stands between them and their vice and they don’t care who they hurt in the process. I don’t believe that they are unaware of the pain they cause, but I do believe that they are not capable of caring.

Addiction is a disease, but it is not an excuse. It is not an excuse for tearing apart a family. It is not an excuse for stealing from an employer. It is not an excuse for hurting the very people who are trying to help you. It is not an excuse for attacking people and blaming them for your mistakes. Addiction is not an excuse for using people and casting them aside when they’ve given you all they can and there’s no more to give.

I am not an addict. But I am the victim of one and as such, I know the pain the addict’s actions cause. I can tell you this with certainty: This too shall pass and I will not be broken. My family will not be destroyed. LOVE conquers all and I now know my own strength.

I knew the moment I first laid eyes on Fraser that he is my “one”. He is my lobster (thank you Phoebe). He is my forever love. He is the first cut… and yes it was the deepest. He was impossible to get over when life separated him from me for the better part of 13 years. My heart yearned for him every day. Fate crossed our paths several times over the years before finally bringing him back to me forever over 17 years ago. A love like ours can not and will not be broken. We will survive this, whole and stronger than ever. No matter where the journey takes us, it takes US together. We are a pair, a team, a couple. We are in this together for the long haul – as we vowed, for better and for worse.

When I became a mother, I experienced a love like no other; a love deeper than any I ever could know. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for my child. I expect no less from Fraser. He is a good father - the best actually. Everything he does, he does from a place of love. He is a kind and gentle giant. He is passionate. He is intelligent beyond measure. He is soft and tough. If he is on your side, if he is your hero, your partner, your brother, your uncle, your cousin, your father, your son, your friend, then you are truly blessed. He will fight for you, support you, defend you, love you with a passion greater than words can describe. I am more blessed than all of you combined, for he is my husband, my partner in life.

No matter what trials and challenges life has thrown at us, we have survived – and believe me, we have had more than our fair share. When the dust settles on this latest challenge, we will still be together, closer and better than ever, because we have a love that is stronger than steel. I will give him the room he needs to be the father he needs to be, to support his child getting life back on track. I will support him through the hard parts, as I have always done, as he has done for me. No matter how hard it gets, I will be by his side, as he has always been for me. I know that as bad as it has been, the worst may be yet to come. I pray that in fact, the worst is behind us. But it matters not, for whatever is ahead of us, it is my lips he kisses last at night, and first in the morning – every day – and that will never change.

Through all of this, I have tried to maintain my brighter-side attitude. It wasn’t automatic. It was too easy to slip into anger and resentment. It was too easy to question why us? Why now? Why, when we have both already endured so much, separately and together, all our lives. Why are we being asked to endure still more. And then it hit me, in the quiet of the night that I am truly grateful for the opportunity to see just what we are capable of. Grateful to see that no matter what life throws at us we can cope because we have each other.

I am grateful to have had the opportunity to learn that I am the woman my mother created me to be. I am the mother I was destined to be. I am the wife I have always desired to be. I am the business woman the Universe asked me to be. I am the person I dreamed I would be. I am stronger than I ever thought I would need to be. I am smarter than any challenge cast my way. I am resilient and tenacious. I am loving and I am loved. I am brave. I am blessed. I am… who I was meant to be and I will not be broken.

Today, I'm writing to say that the sentiment of that post has not changed.  My anger has passed, but the meaning of the post remains the same.  Hubs and I are happier than ever.  We have the life I dreamed of, and the one Hubs promissed me.  We have an amazing 16 year old daughter that we are extremely proud of.  And we continue to work together to deal with the issue of addiction. 

What I most want readers to understand is that I have educated myself about the problems and the sickness of addiction.  I know the difference between supporting and enabling.  But that's easy for me, I'm not the biological parent.  I have detached myself from the addict and his addiction, and his behaviour.  Again, easy for me because I'm not the biological parent.  I know without doubt, that if I were the biological parent it wouldn't be so easy to do the hard stuff.  It's not that easy to be detached either.  Addiction affects us all, and the addict is blind to the pain he causes.  Couples with less tenacity than ours would have crumbled under the strain a long time ago. 

What I know for sure now, is that if WE continue to do what WE have always done, WE are going to get the same results WE have always gotten.  So something has got to change.  Those closest to the addict say he 'appears' to have changed.  Those not yet detached continue to hang on to the hope that they have done the right things and that the change that was needed is happening.  I am less convinced, but no less hopeful. 

Addict, if you're reading this, know this: 
  1. Your mother and father love you more than you know.
  2. Your behaviour and addiction has caused a lot of hurt, but it can all be fixed. It starts with you getting clean. Go to a meeting.  Ask for help.  Help is there. Just ask.
  3. While you consider me your enemy, one day you will learn I am, and always have been, your greatest ally. 
  4. There is a better life waiting for you, but you need help to find it.  You can't do it alone!
  5. Your trusted safety nets are folded up and put away.  Enough is enough.  It's time for change. You may not want to change, but trust me, change IS coming. 
 
Readers, if you're still reading, thank you.  I know it's wordy... for me, it's a release and I appreciate your participation in my healing.